Wednesday, August 4, 2010

What do you mean, my mothering skills have more to do with how she turns out than my baby registry?

The last few weeks, all I've really been doing is registering for baby things. It's a little silly how much stuff there is for babies, and I'm doing my best to research what we really need, which brands get the best ratings, which things lots of moms seem to love, and where to find things the cheapest, but even with all that work, it's still just a big guessing game, because there is no guarantee that any of it will work for THIS baby. Maybe she'll hate being in a sling and love taking baths, or maybe the clown toy that ALL BABIES LOVE! will scare her senseless. (It is a little creepy-looking, I'll admit.) Having a baby is a lot like saying "you know my life's all right, but I could really go for some more mysteries and surprises."

Yesterday was my work baby shower, and we really raked in the goods. I've got some very generous coworkers, several of whom have had babies since I started here, and they know what they're doing as parents, so that's been great for me. One of the moms apologized for getting me something that isn't on my registry (stacking cups for the bath, one of which she says is really useful for rinsing out shampoo). I made no bones about informing her that I don't know WHAT I need, and she should feel free to make whatever suggestions she pleases. I'll take all the help I can get, here, people. Her daughter has made it safely to 18 months, and if those bath toys will put us on the same path, then bring them on!

In real estate news, our house is finally ready to go on the market! So say a prayer that we can sell quickly and for close to what we owe, because SC house mortgage + AR house rent + new baby - Erin's income is not a desirable equation. It's a great house, and I'm really going to miss it. I already do, in fact, though I know it's far from an ideal setup for a baby. The master bedroom is the only downstairs bedroom, so we'd have had to convert the closet (which is way big enough) into the baby's nursery for a while. And while that would have worked great and been totally fine with me and Mike, I don't think my Granny would ever sleep again if she thought I was keeping my baby in a closet. Speaking of the nursery, here is the one item we have purchased for it. Try not to die of cuteness.

Mike is getting ready to head to Arkansas to start teaching, and since I won't be joining him until October at the earliest, I feel like I need to make him a bunch of food to last him until we get there. Not that he's used to home cooked meals every day, but if I can't be there, I can at least send him with enough food that he can eat every time he misses me. I quite like cooking, but can I tell you how much better it would be if I could sit down the whole time? And not because I'm pregnant, either, although my ankles have started swelling at night if I'm on my feet a lot during the day (and my shins feel really tight- is this normal?). I just hate standing up for that long. For my money, standing is just something you have to do in order to get from one seat to the next. But it's tough to get things done in the kitchen without being on your feet, which explains how the inventor of Crocs is laughing all the way to the bank. Anyway so I'm trying to find recipes that freeze well, both to send with him and so I can fix a few things before the baby (for whom we still have not settled on a name) arrives. Got any suggestions?


Mary-Carolyn said...

Aaaaah! Too cute! The rug is too cute! Please take a picture of her on the rug in her ballerina swim suite. Please? I can't think of anything cuter.

Some of the things we got that we didn't register for and I thought I DID NOT WANT in my house, are Colton's favorite things. He's happy, I'm happy.

Oh, and freezer meals, let me know what you like. My freezer is full. I made 2 easy lasagnas (the recipe makes two and is super easy), chicken enchiladas, and my mom froze some soup and spaghetti sauce. Someone brought me a frozen pot pie, which I think I sent you the recipe for? I also have recipes for taco soup, Italian stuffed meatloaf, and turkey tetrezinni, all of which freeze well. If anything sounds appetizing to you, I will send the recipes your way!

Erin said...

OMG I LOVE TAHT RUG!!! I'm kind of hoping I'm having a girl just for that rug, although it doesn't go with my girl-nursery idea AT ALL.

So here's a question -- how many places did you register? I struggled with this during my wedding time too -- I want to register in lots of places to give people lots of options and to make sure I get the best prices covered, but I don't want to look like I'm being greedy. I really would have no problem registering for most stuff at one of the big stores, 2 things at another store that had a better price on those 2 items, 1 at another, and 1 at a fourth if they were all way cheaper than the big store, but I really don't want people to look at 4 registries and think I'm being a present whore.

Erin said...

Oh, and if you get the recipe for that taco soup (or Mary-Carolyn, if you're reading this and want to send it my way -- erinking5 at gmail), pass it along. Taco soup is delicious.

I'm Erin. said...

Hi :)